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		<title>Rememberance, what does today mean to you?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 14:26:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>apaquette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today marks the fourth year anniversary of my nephew, Dustin’s, passing.  The wounds are still fresh as I sit here and remember the events of that day and it feels like it has just happened.  This website was designed by my brother and sister in an effort to help them deal with the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today marks the fourth year anniversary of my nephew, Dustin’s, passing.  The wounds are still fresh as I sit here and remember the events of that day and it feels like it has just happened.  This website was designed by my brother and sister in an effort to help them deal with the loss of a son and mend the pain that will never go away.  Every year since the accident goes by the ache in our hearts remains, the long lasting effects on our family is evident everyday and there seems to be such a change in our lives since the events of that day.  Every holiday brings on a sadness that he is no longer here with us to celebrate.  Every birthday we ask ourselves why and still have no answer.<br />
We feel a dread on January 1st knowing that the anniversary has come around yet once more, and as babies are born and events happen we hope that this day is not tainted by any other events because today is the day that we have a hard time being happy and celebrating anything.  I look at his pictures often and I am still thinking that this is incomprehensible that this tragedy has happened to our family.  We remember him and tell stories of the things that we remember as we still try to deal with our pain.  Sometimes the memories make us laugh and sometimes they make us cry.  My heart is often heavy, and it has brought a great uneasiness to me to know that someone that you love can be taken away so early and so quickly with no warning and no time to say I love you and goodbye.  I remember driving to my brother and sisters house on that morning thinking the whole time that Dustin will be ok, that he is not dead but hurt and on his way to the hospital as I fought back the bile vomit that rose from my stomach at the thought that he would not be alive.  Arriving there for my brother and sister and seeing the ambulance, my sister rushing out to grab a hold of me as I got out of my car.  As soon as I held her I knew the horrible truth that I was trying to convince myself was not really happening.<br />
Since the accident I can’t help but think every time one of our children walk out the door that they won’t be back and I have to fight myself to allow my own daughter to grow up a little bit and give her the freedom to do some things that result in her growing into a teenager. I have nightmares every time she stays with friends or goes to hang out at the mall or somewhere that I am not.  Every year she gets older I wonder if this will be the last year that I am blessed to have her in my life.  I am also pregnant with my second child and can’t help but feel like maybe my baby will not make it because we never know how our future or fate will be decided for us. I have wanted another baby for so many years, and I always think that sometimes you want something so bad that it will not happen.  I am scared everyday when my other nephew’s, niece, and my own daughter want to do something that may cause them harm.  My own mind and imagination goes wild every time they are not at home and whenever they want to “walk to their friend’s house” or when they get off the bus.  You would think that as time goes on these fears would dissipate, but in truth I think that they are getting worse.<br />
I remember the hundreds of people who attended Dustin’s funeral and how there was not a dry eye in the funeral home as the service went on and we got up to say our goodbyes to Dustin, the effect as my whole body shook with sadness as I made a speech that forever hangs next to his picture on my wall.  I think of all the people in our family that were there and the magnitude of people who supported my brother and sister in this time of need for them.  As still I watch the news and see all these people that have died in Haiti, as well as think back on 9-11 and see what a great  out pouring of generosity people are putting forth for these people who are in need and dying that they don’t even know.  What hurts me the most is that there are people in our own family that will take part in these tragedies around the world and these will be events that will be remembered yearly in the news stories.  People will take time every year to remember people lost and will take a moment of silence to pray for their families.  This is a great thing, but many of these people in our own family that remember these events in our country still don’t remember what happened on January 23rd 2006 in our own family.  I am amazed and disappointed that many of our family members only remember Dustin’s passing and accident when I tell them that this is the anniversary.  We are family and I can’t believe that something that is so devastating to this day for us is just another day for so many others.  Those who didn’t know Dustin would have no reason for today to be such a sad day, but the people in our family that took part in the funeral and cried like he was their own son can’t even remember what happened just a short 4 years ago and I wonder how could they forget?  Maybe I am naive to think that people’s day should be forever changed like ours has, but I am truly amazed that it is such an easy thing for people to forget when they can remember events across the world that effected no one that they loved, but people that they did not know and they still have to be reminded of the date a family member has left this world.<br />
I understand that everyone’s tragedies are their own.  We all deal with things differently and we all have our own degrees of grief.  I could never pretend to imagine how my brother and sister feel on a daily basis that their son is not here.  I could never imagine how my nephews or niece feel that their brother is gone.  I know how I feel about it and it could never compare to the grief that they are dealing with every day, every holiday, and every birthday.  I can only support them and love them and deal with my own feelings and understand that theirs are much greater and deeper than my own, as they are his parents and brothers and sister.  It pains me so that there are only a handful of the people in our family who remember this day like we do.  There are only a few close family members that will grieve for Dustin today, out of the hundreds that came to his funeral there will be only a handful that will look upon this day as we do.  To the rest, this day did not happen four years ago, and it has become just a bad memory of “that day” in the back of their minds one day “sometime in January”.<br />
No one new in our lives will ever remember that day or the effects that it truly had on us, they will not understand why this day has so much pain and why my brother and sister will not participate in any parties or get togethers’ today for someone else’s celebration.  It is not that they are selfish or don’t want to celebrate for others, it’s because today is a day of remembrance and sadness, today is a day that we cannot forget, today is a day to be together and love and support each other. Today is the day that we remember like it just happened.</p>
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		<title>What have we come to?</title>
		<link>http://boiledover.com/what-have-we-come-to/254/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Dec 2009 17:55:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>apaquette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just have to comment on this add that I read yesterday regarding a person that was proven guilty through our judicial system and tried to be executed.  I am a little up in the air about executions however, I think that in a lot of cases I am for it more than against it.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just have to comment on this add that I read yesterday regarding a person that was proven guilty through our judicial system and tried to be executed.  I am a little up in the air about executions however, I think that in a lot of cases I am for it more than against it.  The reason for that is because I don&#8217;t think that one person should be able  to take the life of someone else and walk free.  I guess what angers me the most is that when someone commits a crime, it is us who pay for it.  Financially we are housing inmates and feeding them and they are able to live for free with T.V. and three square meals a day.  Now I am not arguing that Prison  life is the best life, but what I am saying is that when you are in trouble for committing a crime against other people what gives you the right to have ANY rights whatsoever?  I think it is truly crazy that people in prison have rights and cable tv.  I don&#8217;t have anywhere to sleep if I don&#8217;t pay my rent, I don&#8217;t have any food to eat if I don&#8217;t buy it.  I don&#8217;t have cable t.v., unless I pay and subscribe to it.  I don&#8217;t have a flat screen tv, but the prisons have them now.  I don&#8217;t have electricity but inmates get all of these things for free.  If I am a working part of society why is it that I get punished by having to pay for these things when I am a positive part of our society and stay out of trouble.  I would love to know when it was that people who have taken away or abused other peoples rights and done things that were against the law get any  rights at all.</p>
<p>In this particular case that I was reading yesterday there was a gentleman that was going to be executed unfortunately for him the execution did not work and he did not die.  Now I think that this is unfortunate and it was horrible that this happened to him, however he did kill someone and take their life from them.  This is why he was on the execution block.  So now the government or sate is asking weather it is humane to try to kill him again and to put him through that kind of pain.  My answer to that is HELL YES and this time make sure he dies.  Now from my point of view is he has taken someone elses life and that person did not get another chance.  He did not stop until they were dead so why should he get another chance to live because he was in a lot of pain from the injection that did not work?  I am sorry, this may sound heartless, but the reality of it is why should he get more of a chance and get the opportunity to live and soak the rest of Americans from their money while we house him in prison because he didn&#8217;t die the first time and it&#8217;s inhumane to try it again and put him through the pain twice.  Do you really think that he thought about the person he killed and how inhumane it was to kill them the way he did?  I don&#8217;t think he did, not until he got caught anyway.  So the bottom line is this, why do people who have no regard for someone else get rights?  They did not deserve the rights that we are giving them.  The only right they deserve when in prison is to be able to have toiletries, clean clothes and a blanket to cover up with.  Why do we help those who do not help themselves?  Why do we continue to give rights to people who don&#8217;t deserve them, and everyone else must pay for their actions.</p>
<p>I found this article on Charter.net in the us news section.</p>
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		<title>The Oldest Profession</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Sep 2009 15:01:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I seen an article this morning while drinking my coffee I don’t know if I was pissed off or what. The article read Craiglist Hooker Sweep Nets 28 Women .Now I have a bit of a different opinion. It was some internet under cover sting. Okay fir I feel if a woman decides to be [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I seen an article this morning while drinking my coffee I don’t know if I was pissed off or what. The article read <a href="http://www.thesmokinggun.com/archive/years/2009/0915091hotdate1.html?link=rssfeed">Craiglist <img src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/01/criminal.jpg" alt="criminal" align="right" border="0" />Hooker Sweep Nets 28 Women</a> .Now I have a bit of a different opinion. It was some internet under cover sting. Okay fir I feel if a woman decides to be a professional escort that’s her business and not for any body to put their nose in.</p>
<p>Has anybody seen what the hell is going on out the in the real world. People are starving because there is no work. The unemployment is outrageous. The poor are getting poorer and the rich stay rich. What if these women had no choice in there life at this point in time? What if that’s the only way they can feed there family or keep the heat on through the winter.</p>
<p>I myself am not saying that it’s right to be in The Oldest Profession”. I am however saying who, are we to judge the way someone has to pay the bills. I’m lucky enough when I lost my job in construction” I’ve been doing for 13 years” I could work at home making a paycheck every week.<a href="http://www.honest-work-at-home.com/"></a></p>
<p>Even if someone has to take things to that extreme they should have the right to make that decision. I say let them take back the money the rich have been sucking this society dry of for so many decades. Lets just face the fact that sex sells.</p>
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		<title>Where is the loyalty</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 15:36:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chad &#38; Stacey</dc:creator>
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Hello everyone. I came onto Boiled Over today to express my feelings about a company’s loyalty towards an employee that has worked for many years. Yes I am speaking about myself. My name is Chad I’m the screamer you see when you log into my wife&#8217;s and my blog. That&#8217;s me aright. I [...]]]></description>
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<p class="MsoNormal">Hello everyone. I came onto Boiled Over today to express my feelings about a company’s loyalty towards an employee that has worked for many years. Yes I am speaking about myself. My name is <st1:country-region><st1:place>Chad</st1:place></st1:country-region> I’m the screamer you see when you log into my wife&#8217;s and my blog. That&#8217;s me aright. I am the Ironworker you probably have read about so many times on this blog. I have worked for the same company for almost thirteen years. I have worked many hours and sweated blood for my employer. I have even bled for this company. I’ve had my arm literally ripped open and even cut the top of my thumb off. I never miss work and I am one of the best Ironworkers in the company. So I’ve been told.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">There is always a slow time of year for us Ironworkers but it’s never affected my job. Usually when everyone is laid off I’m still working. Well guess what, I’m laid off. Some of you might be thinking this guy has a big head. That’s not the case. I have a work ethic that I stick by and that is when you are at work you give110% every day. Right now my employer has about 12 people working none of witch has been employed longer then 5 years. I say to myself where is the loyalty of an employer that I’ve worked for so long for.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal">I’ve tried to call him but he does not return my calls. I’ve called all the foremen in this company and they don’t have a bad thing to say about me at all. Now at this time my wife and I are struggling to pay the bills and might lose our house. I’ve started to work at home like my wife does. It’s a bit trying but I’m getting use to it. I have been learning a lot about working at home because I have my wife to help coach me. It’s not really my passion. I would rather be up high on the iron than sitting behind a desk. I guess I’ve got to do what I’ve got to do. Plus I make much more money on the iron. I’m not sure if this will save our financial dilemma but we are trying. Stacey is much more advanced then I but she’s been doing this work at home for the 13 years I’ve been an Ironworker.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"> I don’t know, I guess I was feeling a bit like my avatar looks and wanted to Boil Over. Stacey has made up an e-book that might help a lot of people that are going through the same things I am. It’s called <a href="http://www.honest-work-at-home.com/">The Guide to Earning a Weekly Paycheck Working at Home on the Internet</a>. I think it is an awesome program and I am now using this while I&#8217;m working at home. Anybody that is interested in working from home should check this out.</p>
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<p class="MsoNormal"> I’m still stuck on the whole loyalty issue but I’m getting over it. I’m also making money at home and hopefully I’ll make enough that I won’t have to work on the iron again. After all it is probably the most dangerous job in the world. Feel free to comment or send this off to a friend now I must get back to work. Stacey is now my boss and she a whole lot better looking than my old boss lol.<o:p></o:p></p>
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		<title>Pissed off over a little IT help; qualifications not in English</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 01:59:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>apaquette0225</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok, to say the least I am a little peeved.   I am sitting on my laptop trying to do my homework and my wireless connection continues to get lost.  I have had this problem since I have started using my computer; my sister in law has tried to help me diagnose the problem with no [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok, to say the least I am a little peeved.   I am sitting on my laptop trying to do my homework and my wireless connection continues to get lost.  I have had this problem since I have started using my computer; my sister in law has tried to help me diagnose the problem with no avail.  I just finally had enough; the computer is brand new as is the router and this should just not be happening.  This is more of an inconvenience than anything, but my laptop is now my primary use for all of my schooling and everything that I do.  So I broke down finally and called the dreaded 1800 number that the website had listed so that I could possibly get some help over the phone to clarify my problem once and for all.  Of course I was connected to a computer technician that did not speak English.  I believe that I was routed somewhere in India where the technician actually expected that I would be able to understand what he was trying to tell me.  Trying really hard not to seem like an idiot as I continued to ask him what he just said, and I’m sorry I didn’t understand you, it was difficult to communicate with him to say the least.  He was very polite even though he seemed a little upset when I did not understand the letters, numbers or directions that he was giving me.  I most likely seemed upset about the same thing.  I got through it, and hopefully have solved my problem, but that is yet to be seen.  I guess I will know as I work on my homework til late in this evening if it really has worked or if there is some other problem I know nothing about.</p>
<p>This brings me to the reason why I am so pissed off.  I believe that everyone has the right to work, and everyone has the right to have a piece of the “American Dream”, I commend people who have struggled to come to this country and work and learn a new language while they continue to better themselves.  I DO NOT however, like that fact that when you call for customer service in the United States you are patched through to some other country and talking to people who do not speak English, but seem to be getting all of the jobs that people actually living in America should get.  So why is our country going to shit?  It’s because everyone but Americans are living the American Dream.  Right now we are all worried about the economy and where we are going to get jobs.  We can all read from a manual that tells us what to do.  Why are we shipping all of our call center jobs out of the country, because it’s cheaper?  This is the problem.  We are not going to be able to afford to live in this country anymore because there are no jobs here to help us live.  We need to keep jobs in America and stop sending them overseas to pay those people 2 dollars a day to do what we should be getting more for.  Funny how it’s cheaper for the companies to send all the jobs overseas and yet our rates continue to rise.  Who’s getting hosed here except us all the way around.</p>
<p>This just reminded me of a commercial that I saw the other day; it was a jimmy john’s sub commercial.  Mind you, I love jimmy johns subs, and that’s why I paid attention to the commercial.  But this commercial may sum it all up in a nutshell for the American people.  In this commercial, which was all in a foreign language, which I think was Japanese, there were Japanese men sitting in a board room discussing a “plan” that one of the workers were proposing.  Not one word in the commercial was in English, but you got the just of the commercial just by the way things were going.  In this commercial the “head” of the board was not a happy camper and not really liking the ideas being proposed.  So the man that was proposing the new plan orders subs for everyone from Jimmy John’s which were the only words in English.  The subs came and all the men were happy.  This part wasn’t the saddest part of the commercial.  In the end the commercial actually said “Jimmy Johns’” and something to the affect of them being America’s best subs, or something along those lines.  So, we have America’s best subs in commercials about another country and two words in the whole commercial were in English, huh, what does that say about our businesses in America?  This is not the way to make sure America survives, and I am sick and tired of it.  There are things that can be done, the question is are any of the companies gonna have the balls to do the right thing??? How about hire American, we could start there.</p>
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		<title>Random Thoughts and a Beach in Austrailia</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Oct 2008 22:08:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chad &#38; Stacey</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wow I have been gone for so long…..seems that way. Life is not any better around here. Yeah, gas prices let up, but groceries haven’t. The election is getting closer and I am surprised that the phone has not been ringing off the hook like in previous years. News is….the candidates have given up Michigan. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/australia_heron_island_beach.jpg" alt="Beach" width="340" align="right" height="200" />Wow I have been gone for so long…..seems that way. Life is not any better around here. Yeah, gas prices let up, but groceries haven’t. The election is getting closer and I am surprised that the phone has not been ringing off the hook like in previous years. News is….the candidates have given up Michigan. I think we are a lost cause anyway…crime is terrible, no jobs, no money, and the cost of living will make you sick. Wish I was on a beach in Australia having a cold margarita with my hubby. We can dream can’t we?</p>
<p>The year has almost gone…Holidays are approaching fast and we won’t talk about that stress. Where did the time go, seems it was just spring a few months ago. Now, it’s plastic on the windows, weather stripping in the doors and pull out the heavy blankets. Word is our natural gas bill will rise about 20% this winter…sure we can afford that.</p>
<p>We found out that we are going to be grandparents, which should be good news since it is our first grandchild. Well, all I can say is I’m happy, but I wish the father was a responsible one. Our daughter is living at home with us and they have “broken” up and he is a piece of shit. As much as I was looking forward to having a life of my own, I now know we will be raising our grandbaby.</p>
<p>Things that are going on across our country, scare me. I read the news daily and it is all horrible…recession fears, killings and kidnappings.</p>
<p>My heart cries for the time when I was truly happy with life, with the world, just plain happy. It’s hard to put a smile on my face these days. I worry when my kids are two seconds late, I worry about the gas price because my husband commutes, I worry about going to the grocery store….It just keeps going.</p>
<p>I want my son back, I want my life back, I want…..</p>
<p>That beach in Australia …yeah the sunshine with no worries!</p>
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		<title>Darkness, Emptiness, Loneliness</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Aug 2008 20:05:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>a girl from Cali</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have been a reader of this site for a few months now because it hits close to home in my heart. My husband and I lost a teenage son to a traffic accident a couple years ago. It has been the so hard to move past it and get on with life. My daily [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/loneliness.jpg"><img src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/loneliness.thumbnail.jpg" vspace="5" align="left" hspace="5" /></a>I have been a reader of this site for a few months now because it hits close to home in my heart. My husband and I lost a teenage son to a traffic accident a couple years ago. It has been the so hard to move past it and get on with life. My daily thoughts are still consumed with everything relating to him, the precious memories, the accident and the days following. Every where I turn something reminds of everything like a flood of emotions.</p>
<p>At this point in my life I should be happy. My career is finally starting to take off, we own our house in a small town, and we have even been able to take a few vacations. The problem is I feel so alone. When I look deep inside my soul I just see emptiness. My husband who I love deeply has changed, become bitter at life. He was so supportive at first, but now it&#8217;s like he can&#8217;t emotionally handle me being upset. My family and friends have their own problems and it seems they need answers or support from me more than ever.</p>
<p>My thought….When will someone be there for me? I believe in God and I know he is there for me, but he&#8217;s not much for conversation. I am a private person, so I do not want to talk to a stranger face to face about what I&#8217;m feeling. I blog part time also and that is why I am posting here. I need to express the way I feel, in hopes that something will change without the whole world knowing who I am.</p>
<p>It is hard to face reality that I will never truly be 100% happy again because there will always be a part of my life missing….our son.</p>
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		<title>Don&#8217;t Cash This Check</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jul 2008 22:13:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chad &#38; Stacey</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is to warn everyone of a scam that is coming through snail mail. I received a letter last week stating that I had won a prize in the 2008 North American Lottery.  The letter was received in a plain white envelope with no return address (first red flag). When I opened the letter [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is to warn everyone of a scam that is coming through snail mail. I received a letter last week stating that I had won a prize in the 2008 North American Lottery.  The letter was received in a plain white envelope with no return address (first red flag). When I opened the letter a very real check was enclosed. The check was written to me in the amount of $3955.00 and even had the watermark on the back making it very convincing. The letter stated that the company had been trying to contact me to disperse my winnings of $55,000. (the second red flag, I had not been contacted by anyone)<br />
<a href="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/check.jpg" title="Check Scam"><img src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/check.jpg" alt="Check Scam" vspace="10" width="300" align="right" height="130" hspace="10" /></a><br />
My husband being the optimist said I should call the number and hear what they had to say. The gentleman was extremely convincing. He even stated that the lottery was sponsored by Visa and Walmart. Well I use a Visa at Walmart all the time, so I continued to listen. At this point I was thinking maybe I really did win something.  I even asked the guy if this was real and he stated &#8220;I have been doing this for over ten years and I assure you that it is real.&#8221;</p>
<p>Mr. Bob, as he called himself, said that $2900.00 of the check amount had to be paid to &#8220;Washington&#8221; for taxes on the winnings. (next red flag &#8211; taxes on $55,000 should be more than $2900.00) I was instructed to deposit the check and call Mr. Bob back to make arraignments on paying the $2900.00 and decide how I would receive the rest of my winnings. My choices were to have the winnings directly deposited in my account, cashiers check or money order. As I hung up the phone I started to get excited, thinking maybe the sun has finally shined on us.</p>
<p>THEN! My logical brain caught up and said &#8220;NO WAY&#8221;, something is just not right. I googled &#8220;The North American Lottery&#8221; and not to much of a surprise countless complaints about returned checks and scam artists. UUUGHHH! No free money for us! I found the number for the bank the check was drawn on. The address if the company &#8220;LexJet Corporation&#8221; was the same as the bank list.  At this time I knew for sure that it was a scam, but I called the bank anyway. The response was just as I had thought, the check is no good and the bank agent gave me th number to the Canadian Authorities that are investigating the scam.</p>
<p><a href="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/letter1.JPG" title="Scam Letter"><img src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/07/letter1.thumbnail.JPG" alt="Scam Letter" vspace="10" align="left" hspace="10" /></a></p>
<p>I called Joe at the toll free number and gave him the information. It seems that everyone in our county with a mailing address was sent the same scam. The letter varied and so did the check amount, but it was the same concept from the same company. Cash the bad check, wire them $2900.00, give them your banking information and BOOM &#8211; YOU&#8217;RE BROKE!</p>
<p>If you have received a letter like this one or a check please call Joe at the Canadian Fraud Department 1-888-495-8501. They are working with the FBI and USPS to try and catch these thieves. It is bad enough that many of us are already down on our luck we do not need someone out there trying to totally destroy us.</p>
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		<title>Bitten By Michigan No-Fault Insurance</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 12:58:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chad &#38; Stacey</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have had enough with this crap called no-fault insurance! It is one of the biggest cons in the insurance industry. In case you are not familiar with no-fault laws I will put them in laymen terms for you.
Basically YOUR car insurance covers YOUR vehicle and persons in YOUR vehicle regardless of fault.
Here is where [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have had enough with this crap called no-fault insurance! It is one of the biggest cons in the insurance industry. In case you are not familiar with no-fault laws I will put them in laymen terms for you.</p>
<p>Basically <strong><font color="#cc0033">YOUR</font></strong> car insurance covers <strong><font color="#cc0033">YOUR</font></strong> vehicle and persons in <strong><font color="#cc0033">YOUR</font></strong> vehicle regardless of fault.</p>
<p>Here is where it kicks you in the ass……</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s say you do not have collision insurance on your vehicle, someone <strong><font color="#cc0033">HITS YOU</font></strong> and its <strong><font color="#cc0033">THEIR FAULT</font></strong>. If your vehicle sustains over $500 in damages you are entitled to what they call a mini-tort claim. The mini- tort is paid by the insurance company of the person at fault (providing they have this coverage, if not you have to sue them for it).</p>
<p><strong><font color="#cc0033">Someone hits you, it&#8217;s their fault …you get a SMASHED UP CAR and a measly $500!</font></strong></p>
<p>Doesn&#8217;t seem very fair, does it? This has happened to me <strong><font color="#cc0033">TWICE!</font></strong> It&#8217;s ridiculous!</p>
<p>Last Thursday afternoon coming from the <strong><font color="#cc0033">HIGH SCHOOL</font></strong> I was hit by another driver. I had the green light and she <strong><font color="#cc0033">BLEW</font></strong> through the red light into me at 45 MPH! Luckily I was turning and did not have my son with me. As I pulled into the nearest drive to get out of traffic she comes rushing up to me saying, &#8220;It was my fault, I did not realize the light was red&#8221;. She stated that she was worried about getting into the share a ride with the construction ahead and was not even looking at the light. Then she proceeds to tell me that she does not even live in the area, but wanted KFC so she got off on the previous exit and drove through Bridgeport.<br />
<img src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/car01433.jpg" alt="car accident" vspace="10" align="right" hspace="10" /><br />
For those of you who know our background you can imagine my anger. She ran a red light at 45 MPH at the <strong><font color="#cc0033">High School</font></strong> intersection, minutes after school let out! Our son was killed just 100 feet down the same road two years ago! What if one of those students from the High School was crossing at the one and only crosswalk in town, the same crosswalk she just <strong><font color="#cc0033">BLEW</font></strong> through to hit me! They would have had no chance against her <strong><font color="#cc0033">SUV</font></strong>!</p>
<p>I was proud that I was able to keep my composure and not wrap my hands around her neck and squeeze tightly. I was so angry and distraught, so many bad memories of Dustin&#8217;s accident running through my mind. I just grinded my teeth, clenched my fist and tried to be patient as we waited for the police.</p>
<p>She was sited for failure to yield a red light. If the school signs we requested two years ago would have been put in place her citation would have been much worse or maybe just, maybe she would have seen the school signs and been more careful. (We were told by the Saginaw County Road commission that the signs were misleading to motorists)….<strong><font color="#cc0033">what a crock of bull!</font></strong></p>
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</font></strong>So this is the second time that I have a smashed car with no means to fix it. I will hopefully get the $500 mini-tort, but that won&#8217;t cover the $1500 in damage she caused because she was an idiot! The first time this happened I was hit from the rear at a red light, pushed through the intersection by a driver that had a suspended license!<br />
<img src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2007/12/fogroads4166.thumbnail.jpg" alt="Driving" vspace="10" align="left" hspace="10" /><br />
The no-fault law also kicked us in the ass when Dustin was killed. At that time we did not have a running vehicle, (my husbands transmission went out) so we had no insurance. Since it is a no-fault state we received a mere $1400 to cover his funeral expenses that way exceeded $10,000 and our son was dead.</p>
<p>The state of Michigan says that no-fault insurance helps keep costs down, yet we have some of the highest rates in the country. We as citizens give up our right to sue when involved in an accident (unwillingly). Many of the people that live here don&#8217;t even realize what no-fault means. It only helps the person that is <strong><font color="#cc0033">AT FAULT!</font></strong> How callous can you be?</p>
<p>The damn insurance companies have you again&#8230;.all that money you pay them and you can&#8217;t even get your car repair when someone else is careless!</p>
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		<title>Furious Friday – Child Care Crisis</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 10:53:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chad &#38; Stacey</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This post is for all the Child Care Providers out there mainly our sister who has a very difficult time with one mother.
Every parent that works knows that child care costs are just a part of life. Our sister has been going to school full time from home and was laid off from her job [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img align="right" src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/child-care.png" alt="child care" />This post is for all the Child Care Providers out there mainly our sister who has a very difficult time with one mother.</p>
<p>Every parent that works knows that child care costs are just a part of life. Our sister has been going to school full time from home and was laid off from her job in the fall. She decided to try to open a Child Care business in her home so that she could continue going to school and spend more time with our darling niece.</p>
<p>She has had a difficult time with a mother that brings her precious little girl and school age son to her house for child care. This woman for whatever reason is not paying our sister, she even had help from the state in the beginning. This woman actually had the audacity to cash one of the child care checks the state sent her for our sister and keep the money! Yes, she cashed the check, failed to tell our sister and kept the money! The next week she failed to pay again. When our sister said that she must pay every week, the woman complained that the price was too high, but continued to bring the kids. Last week after writing a check for her child care costs, she called our sister and told her not to deposit the check because it was no good. Then on Monday morning her check from the previous week was returned to the bank unpaid.<br />
<img vspace="10" align="left" src="http://boiledover.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/kids.jpg" alt="kids" /><br />
Now that the money she owes for child care is piling up, I suggested to our sister to put her foot down. I understand that this woman has bills to pay, but so does our sister who is now working literally for free. A document was typed up stating the exact amounts that were owed and also stated that this woman must pay in cash from that point forward. She freaked, this woman was actually upset and asked our sister how she could do this to her.</p>
<p>Are you kidding me? Our sister cares for these children like they are her own and she has even bought them clothes to keep at her house, since the mother never brings any. After receiving the document and throwing a fit the woman never brought the kids back, telling our sister she found someone to watch them for free. I would have to say she has had free child care for over a month since she has paid with bad checks. She promises to pay when she gets her stimulus check….but we’ll see.</p>
<p>I understand that everyone is having a difficult time financially, especially in the area where we live, but paying for child care is just a part of life if you need to work.</p>
<p>Remember that person that is caring for your children during the day has bills to pay too.</p>
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