Comments for Boiled Over http://boiledover.com Are You Ready To Boil Over..So Are We! Sat, 03 Mar 2012 16:56:37 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 Comment on ADHD – Your Childs Life May Be in Danger by Sheena http://boiledover.com/adhd-your-childs-life-may-be-in-danger/154#comment-611 Sheena Sat, 03 Mar 2012 16:56:37 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=154#comment-611 As an adult that takes ritilin I agree. Ritilin shouldn't be used for anyone. It causes me to have suicidal thoughts, depression, heart palpitations and insomnia. I can easily see a child or teen with different hormones affecting their judgement commiting suicide while on this drug. If my doctor didn't basically say i had no other options in medication, (I'm seeking a second opinion) I would be of this terrible pill in a heartbeat. The FDA and drug companies do not have people's best interest in mind, they only care about money.  Interesting fact my doctor told me the other day, there are increased shortages of ritilin available at pharmacies, not because the pharmaceutical company isn't producing enough, she believes they are purposely causing this shortage so people who are dependent on this medication get desperate and that they will pay whatever the company asks for the pill. There's going to be a price hike in the medication soon. Just goes to show again where these companies hearts lie. As an adult that takes ritilin I agree. Ritilin shouldn’t be used for anyone. It causes me to have suicidal thoughts, depression, heart palpitations and insomnia. I can easily see a child or teen with different hormones affecting their judgement commiting suicide while on this drug. If my doctor didn’t basically say i had no other options in medication, (I’m seeking a second opinion) I would be of this terrible pill in a heartbeat. The FDA and drug companies do not have people’s best interest in mind, they only care about money.  Interesting fact my doctor told me the other day, there are increased shortages of ritilin available at pharmacies, not because the pharmaceutical company isn’t producing enough, she believes they are purposely causing this shortage so people who are dependent on this medication get desperate and that they will pay whatever the company asks for the pill. There’s going to be a price hike in the medication soon. Just goes to show again where these companies hearts lie.

]]> Comment on The Dead Beat Boyfriend by Suggestions http://boiledover.com/the-dead-beat-boyfriend/71#comment-601 Suggestions Thu, 02 Feb 2012 05:56:59 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=71#comment-601 i love my daughter very much. I would be happy if she never moved out. She's extremely talented; written one book completely has another almost half finished and two more in the works and she is very, very great at drawing,painting,etc. She was home-schooled and rarely left the house. She doesn't like cigarettes or drugs. She meet this boy, a neighbor, that seemed to stay at home all the time(lived with his Grandmother because his mom and Dad were in prison for Meth. his sister was into drugs and he had been at one time. But he worked ever day and just came home and slept on the couch. My daughter seems to fall for him she was 20, a virgin and he was he 1st real boyfriend. We decided that we would be good people and let him live with us after they dated for several months. she was on birth control and got pregnant, then lost the baby at 7 weeks; didn't know it till she was almost 12 wks. It devastated her and he has always been very loving and caring towards her, always showing affection. She found out that he smoked cigarettes and pot; she didn't like it but tolerated it. I tried to teach her about having good credit and got her a credit card in her name. Since then there have been instances with him not coming home till early morning hours about 2, maybe 3 times in a years time. She did get pregnant again, on purpose this time and the baby is 7 weeks old now. Things have been changing gradually for the past 11 months or so but the biggest change came within a month of the baby being born. She wanted very much to breast feed but only lasted about a month. She doesn't have a job but had an electric double pump and her Father bought her $10 worth of herbs to help produce more milk; which she wanted and didn't need. I've known for awhile that he has been taking pain pills and i don't honestly know what else BUT SOMETHING else occasionally. We have treated this 21 yr. boy like a member of the family. We've taken them out to eat. My husband had let him drive our 2007 Honda Civic and new Yamaha 125 scooter; which he NEVER DOES for anyone. We've bought him clothes, shoes, given him money and the list goes on. He hasn't paid a bill here and all he does is take our Daughter to hang out at his Uncles and his friends/family. Since the baby boy was born Dec. 14, 2011, my husband sold his car because they lied to him about the car being wrecked and having a salvage title. He took a lot of that money and took, me, our Daughter and her boyfriend out to eat at a nice restaurant, bought them both new pairs of shoes and given them some money. When he finds out he is getting a big tax check back for carrying the baby he runs my Daughter's credit card up to almost the max. lacking only $30 of going over. He said he would give her $750 to pay it all the way off and buy a newer car. Well he went over his head in debt for something he'll never be able to pay just because of his insurance being so high for tickets, he's been paying on a rent-to-own PlayStation 3 that cost hundreds and hundreds of dollars; it's 20 a week, plus I gave him $80 to pay on the internet and he goes and gets a cable and internet package that's over 100 a month in his name. We never had to pay for cable just internet so there is no way we can pay that part, only the internet part which he uses. He paid only $500 on my Daughter's credit card NOT 750 like he said and he's been taking his family out to eat. MY Daughter used her card and spent $70 dollars after all this while my husband stayed home and watched the baby; which I also do every single night since he was brought home from the hospital. I do not mind that part at all. I love my Grandson. My disabled son and my Daughter both didn't have Grandparents in their lives; which has always really devastated me. That boy was dragging her everywhere the first couple of days in the car. i could tell she was tired and upset. SO I really let him have it and the disrespect that he had for me and hate it seemed like was too much for me. I slapped me twice. I'm not the type of person that like confrontations, so I'll hold things in for a VERY long time. I just snapped on him. Since then he will not come in the front door, speak to me or even say he was sorry. I told him i was sorry for hitting him but that didn't matter. He has been laying out of work a lot now. When he does get paid, it's gone the next day. He has already added up charges on her card 2 days after only paying $500 instead of the $750. My Daughter, her boyfriend, his sister and his sister's boyfriend were all taken out to eat with the bill being $70+ My husband and I watched the baby. Today they go to his uncles house and when she comes home, she starts showing me pictures of all his family she's taken, some were taken today and then developed. She told me in front of him that he bought his uncle & uncles girlfriend really thick steaks. All I wanted to do was be there for my Daughter like my Mother and Father never did for me. I wanted to like her boyfriend and for him to like me. I'm so depressed about all of this i just want to get rid of him now but i'm afraid she will go with him AND take the baby. I told him the day that I went off on him that he could move back in with his Grandmother if he didn't like it here; of course he said he would but he didn't. We don't have money but we do have a nicer and bigger home. My Daughter has always had the master bedroom and another bedroom beside it and the master bath. We've given them the best, name brand mattress and box-springs, Name brand Queen size and the room is kept filthy. I don't feel like i can take much more of this. If it weren't for my Daughter, disabled son(that lives in a group home) and my Grandson. I would just say the hell with it all and leave this world. Every person myself or my husband has been very good to and tried to help have done nothing but steal from us, use us and treat us like pure scum of the earth. I tell my Daughter i love her everyday, several times a day and she tells me the same but no one is showing it. Whatever happened to actions speak louder than words. Sorry this was soooooo very long but any advice, words of wisdom, someone going through the same thing or has been through the same thing......please, please talk to me. You can email me at sugert1@live .com. Thanks for letting me rant. i love my daughter very much. I would be happy if she never moved out. She’s extremely talented; written one book completely has another almost half finished and two more in the works and she is very, very great at drawing,painting,etc. She was home-schooled and rarely left the house. She doesn’t like cigarettes or drugs. She meet this boy, a neighbor, that seemed to stay at home all the time(lived with his Grandmother because his mom and Dad were in prison for Meth. his sister was into drugs and he had been at one time. But he worked ever day and just came home and slept on the couch. My daughter seems to fall for him she was 20, a virgin and he was he 1st real boyfriend. We decided that we would be good people and let him live with us after they dated for several months. she was on birth control and got pregnant, then lost the baby at 7 weeks; didn’t know it till she was almost 12 wks. It devastated her and he has always been very loving and caring towards her, always showing affection. She found out that he smoked cigarettes and pot; she didn’t like it but tolerated it. I tried to teach her about having good credit and got her a credit card in her name. Since then there have been instances with him not coming home till early morning hours about 2, maybe 3 times in a years time. She did get pregnant again, on purpose this time and the baby is 7 weeks old now. Things have been changing gradually for the past 11 months or so but the biggest change came within a month of the baby being born. She wanted very much to breast feed but only lasted about a month. She doesn’t have a job but had an electric double pump and her Father bought her $10 worth of herbs to help produce more milk; which she wanted and didn’t need. I’ve known for awhile that he has been taking pain pills and i don’t honestly know what else BUT SOMETHING else occasionally. We have treated this 21 yr. boy like a member of the family. We’ve taken them out to eat. My husband had let him drive our 2007 Honda Civic and new Yamaha 125 scooter; which he NEVER DOES for anyone. We’ve bought him clothes, shoes, given him money and the list goes on. He hasn’t paid a bill here and all he does is take our Daughter to hang out at his Uncles and his friends/family. Since the baby boy was born Dec. 14, 2011, my husband sold his car because they lied to him about the car being wrecked and having a salvage title. He took a lot of that money and took, me, our Daughter and her boyfriend out to eat at a nice restaurant, bought them both new pairs of shoes and given them some money. When he finds out he is getting a big tax check back for carrying the baby he runs my Daughter’s credit card up to almost the max. lacking only $30 of going over. He said he would give her $750 to pay it all the way off and buy a newer car. Well he went over his head in debt for something he’ll never be able to pay just because of his insurance being so high for tickets, he’s been paying on a rent-to-own PlayStation 3 that cost hundreds and hundreds of dollars; it’s 20 a week, plus I gave him $80 to pay on the internet and he goes and gets a cable and internet package that’s over 100 a month in his name. We never had to pay for cable just internet so there is no way we can pay that part, only the internet part which he uses. He paid only $500 on my Daughter’s credit card NOT 750 like he said and he’s been taking his family out to eat. MY Daughter used her card and spent $70 dollars after all this while my husband stayed home and watched the baby; which I also do every single night since he was brought home from the hospital. I do not mind that part at all. I love my Grandson. My disabled son and my Daughter both didn’t have Grandparents in their lives; which has always really devastated me. That boy was dragging her everywhere the first couple of days in the car. i could tell she was tired and upset. SO I really let him have it and the disrespect that he had for me and hate it seemed like was too much for me. I slapped me twice. I’m not the type of person that like confrontations, so I’ll hold things in for a VERY long time. I just snapped on him. Since then he will not come in the front door, speak to me or even say he was sorry. I told him i was sorry for hitting him but that didn’t matter. He has been laying out of work a lot now. When he does get paid, it’s gone the next day. He has already added up charges on her card 2 days after only paying $500 instead of the $750. My Daughter, her boyfriend, his sister and his sister’s boyfriend were all taken out to eat with the bill being $70+ My husband and I watched the baby. Today they go to his uncles house and when she comes home, she starts showing me pictures of all his family she’s taken, some were taken today and then developed. She told me in front of him that he bought his uncle & uncles girlfriend really thick steaks. All I wanted to do was be there for my Daughter like my Mother and Father never did for me. I wanted to like her boyfriend and for him to like me. I’m so depressed about all of this i just want to get rid of him now but i’m afraid she will go with him AND take the baby. I told him the day that I went off on him that he could move back in with his Grandmother if he didn’t like it here; of course he said he would but he didn’t. We don’t have money but we do have a nicer and bigger home. My Daughter has always had the master bedroom and another bedroom beside it and the master bath. We’ve given them the best, name brand mattress and box-springs, Name brand Queen size and the room is kept filthy. I don’t feel like i can take much more of this. If it weren’t for my Daughter, disabled son(that lives in a group home) and my Grandson. I would just say the hell with it all and leave this world. Every person myself or my husband has been very good to and tried to help have done nothing but steal from us, use us and treat us like pure scum of the earth. I tell my Daughter i love her everyday, several times a day and she tells me the same but no one is showing it. Whatever happened to actions speak louder than words.
Sorry this was soooooo very long but any advice, words of wisdom, someone going through the same thing or has been through the same thing……please, please talk to me. You can email me at sugert1@live .com. Thanks for letting me rant.

]]> Comment on Beware of Universal Gas & Electric by Jerry http://boiledover.com/beware-of-universal-gas-electric/122#comment-576 Jerry Sat, 19 Nov 2011 00:09:19 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=122#comment-576 They are in Allegan county, as of 11-18-2011. They came to my home, All i remember is He siad he was with, (not sure of the name. wasnt ready buying anyway), But the next line was Can I see your Gas bill? I replied "go away not interested". After that i call my local gas company, and asked "whats up with the door to door". they said "it was other gas companies tring to take your account over". 2nd question was, "Why did You not send out warning letter about this", and my local gas company replied "What they are doing is not illegal." And went on to say "That all they need is your meter # and account #". did not say they need anything signed. So if you Here Can I see your BILL? Just say NO! They are in Allegan county, as of 11-18-2011. They came to my home, All i remember is He siad he was with, (not sure of the name. wasnt ready buying anyway), But the next line was Can I see your Gas bill? I replied “go away not interested”. After that i call my local gas company, and asked “whats up with the door to door”. they said “it was other gas companies tring to take your account over”. 2nd question was, “Why did You not send out warning letter about this”, and my local gas company replied “What they are doing is not illegal.” And went on to say “That all they need is your meter # and account #”. did not say they need anything signed. So if you Here Can I see your BILL? Just say NO!

]]> Comment on Ironworkers a Breed of Their Own by Nica http://boiledover.com/ironworkers-a-breed-of-their-own/232#comment-573 Nica Wed, 02 Nov 2011 17:17:10 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=232#comment-573 I'm very much in love with a man who is an ironworker. I'm so proud of his noble work ethic & sure I worry everyday that he remains safe. This year we've lived together for only one consecutive month; mostly it's weekends here & there. He's working out of town & constantly on the move so much that I wonder if our relationship will ever work. But then I remember that the alternative would be unbearable. "Sometimes" with him are better than "everytime" with someone else. I’m very much in love with a man who is an ironworker. I’m so proud of his noble work ethic & sure I worry everyday that he remains safe. This year we’ve lived together for only one consecutive month; mostly it’s weekends here & there. He’s working out of town & constantly on the move so much that I wonder if our relationship will ever work. But then I remember that the alternative would be unbearable. “Sometimes” with him are better than “everytime” with someone else.

]]> Comment on Angry At Life by nas http://boiledover.com/angry-at-life/88#comment-572 nas Fri, 28 Oct 2011 22:16:36 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=88#comment-572 i feel angry, sad, sorry, aggressive, but still all i can do is just watch. i try till my last breath but nothing is changing. i fight and every time i loose. i have only one problem. its bothering me so much.but i can do nothing. i have to die every time when it happens to me. i feel so angry that i have changed the way my head bones look. i used to be a handsome guy but now i have changed my face to an ugly creature. my problem is some one i hate the most but i cant hurt. i cant see him with my self but i live with him. i want to tell him so many things but cant say a word. i dont know what to do.  i feel angry, sad, sorry, aggressive, but still all i can do is just watch. i try till my last breath but nothing is changing. i fight and every time i loose. i have only one problem. its bothering me so much.but i can do nothing. i have to die every time when it happens to me. i feel so angry that i have changed the way my head bones look. i used to be a handsome guy but now i have changed my face to an ugly creature. my problem is some one i hate the most but i cant hurt. i cant see him with my self but i live with him. i want to tell him so many things but cant say a word. i dont know what to do. 

]]> Comment on About Us by NH DWI Attorney http://boiledover.com/about#comment-570 NH DWI Attorney Tue, 25 Oct 2011 15:30:26 +0000 http://www.boiledover.com/?page_id=246#comment-570 I was amazed at the number of topics you cover, the fact that you write about the injustices of the world makes for a very compelling website. I wish you the best of luck in the future. I was amazed at the number of topics you cover, the fact that you write about the injustices of the world makes for a very compelling website.

I wish you the best of luck in the future.

]]> Comment on Ironworkers a Breed of Their Own by J.R.Fredenburg http://boiledover.com/ironworkers-a-breed-of-their-own/232#comment-569 J.R.Fredenburg Sun, 23 Oct 2011 17:40:09 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=232#comment-569 I'm a retired iron worker from IWL #111. Thank you for putting into words what very few understand. Your right we are an extended family. I have 2 sons that are iron workers. They are starting to appreciate what it means to be one, instead or the son of one. Wife's like you are a dream to come home to. Most of the iron workers I've worked with over the 31 yrs.I put in. Just wanted the ones he was supporting, would be at the door to say welcome home. Thank you like I love you can't be worn out. I wish all who read your poem / post, Go well !  Be safe !  Union for life !     ARNWRKR  I’m a retired iron worker from IWL #111. Thank you for putting into words what very few understand. Your right we are an extended family. I have 2 sons that are iron workers. They are starting to appreciate what it means to be one, instead or the son of one. Wife’s like you are a dream to come home to. Most of the iron workers I’ve worked with over the 31 yrs.I put in. Just wanted the ones he was supporting, would be at the door to say welcome home. Thank you like I love you can’t be worn out. I wish all who read your poem / post, Go well !  Be safe !  Union for life !     ARNWRKR 

]]> Comment on Ironworkers a Breed of Their Own by Chad Stacey http://boiledover.com/ironworkers-a-breed-of-their-own/232#comment-549 Chad Stacey Mon, 22 Aug 2011 11:12:32 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=232#comment-549 The life of an ironworker is tough for the entire family and people don't realize that. It's not a normal 9 to 5 construction job it's a lifestyle. You never know where you'll be working or for how long. Thank you for the kind words and we wish you the best of luck, Brother! The life of an ironworker is tough for the entire family and people don’t realize that. It’s not a normal 9 to 5 construction job it’s a lifestyle. You never know where you’ll be working or for how long.

Thank you for the kind words and we wish you the best of luck, Brother!

]]> Comment on Ironworkers a Breed of Their Own by (Slim) Jim Hammond http://boiledover.com/ironworkers-a-breed-of-their-own/232#comment-548 (Slim) Jim Hammond Sun, 21 Aug 2011 14:58:50 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=232#comment-548 I thank you, Sister!  I am a Local 66 Ironworker, packing as I type, heading out of town this evening working yet another 4  10's out of town away from my family!  It is not easy leaving my step kids and 7 mo. preg girlfriend but we have to pay bills!  We could not do it without strong women like you and my Girlfriend to hold us down and keep us moving!  We love you guys dearly! God bless the wives and Girlfriends of a BOOMER! I thank you, Sister!  I am a Local 66 Ironworker, packing as I type, heading out of town this evening working yet another 4  10′s out of town away from my family!  It is not easy leaving my step kids and 7 mo. preg girlfriend but we have to pay bills!  We could not do it without strong women like you and my Girlfriend to hold us down and keep us moving!  We love you guys dearly!

God bless the wives and Girlfriends of a BOOMER!

]]> Comment on This frustration is painful by Adam http://boiledover.com/this-frustration-is-painful/525#comment-542 Adam Mon, 08 Aug 2011 20:24:45 +0000 http://boiledover.com/?p=525#comment-542 Hey, i know it's hard, and i'm sorry to hear about everything. I just wanted to let you know, that i suffer from anxiety as well. I was having chest pains, and feared there was something wrong with my heart. I started taking Ativan, which helped, but i finally resolved to get off of them and work through my anxiety. Every time i felt anxious, i asked myself "why" And i could never come up with a good enough reason for why i was feeling that way. I kept telling myself that feeling anxious was not helping me do the things i needed to do, it was prohibiting me. I began meditating, and trying to relax more, and it has made a big difference. Just know that it can get better. Spend time with people you like, do things you enjoy, and take some time to just be alone and think if you need to. Hope you are well. Hey, i know it’s hard, and i’m sorry to hear about everything. I just wanted to let you know, that i suffer from anxiety as well. I was having chest pains, and feared there was something wrong with my heart. I started taking Ativan, which helped, but i finally resolved to get off of them and work through my anxiety. Every time i felt anxious, i asked myself “why” And i could never come up with a good enough reason for why i was feeling that way. I kept telling myself that feeling anxious was not helping me do the things i needed to do, it was prohibiting me. I began meditating, and trying to relax more, and it has made a big difference. Just know that it can get better. Spend time with people you like, do things you enjoy, and take some time to just be alone and think if you need to. Hope you are well.

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