What the Hell happened to Gentlemen?

apaquette — Wed, 26 Dec 2007 15:42:46 +0000

I so want to know what happened to all the gentlemen in the world. What happened to taking care of each other and each others needs? I am so tired of lazy ass men. I am single of course because I am sick of the bullshit. Men are so good at “getting in” butthey fail to realize that women have needs too. They forget about their good women and all of the great things that she does for them. Whoever decided that woman’s rights meant that men didn’t have to do anything but go to work was an idiot. We as women not only work our asses off in the home doing all the cleaning and cooking and all of the things you do when you have your own place but now we have to be the men too because they work “so hard”. That’s bullshit. We also work out of the home most of the time, as if taking care of the home isn’t an endless job already. I want a gentlemen, women like flowers and dinner dates and candles. Men are so stupid that they think that if they are around it will be enough. We as women need attention, if that is too much for you I guess that’s why you have to be mad about never getting laid. We are people too. What happened to men doing things to help their women out? Men need to be making sure that the women are taken care of in all aspects, not just with your paycheck. If it was about your paycheck believe me, we could find someone that makes more and hire someone to do all of the crap that we do around the house. We want partners and someone to share our lives with. If you don’t have time for that as a man, you can’t have all the perks. I have been told that I “shop in the wrong section” I don’t believe that. Most of the married people that I know aren’t even happy with each other let alone they don’t even like each other. I have “shopped” in just about every section there is. I have dated black men, white men, Tongan men, Mexican men, and this list goes on. There have been “so called” good boys and bad boys. I think that what it boils down to is men are lazy when it comes to taking care of their women. Now, all men say “well I am not like that” but they are, and they do not listen when you tell them what you need. Then they can’t understand why you dump them or move on, or sleep with their friends. But lets not go there about cheating spouses. Everyone thinks they have a good reason to cheat, its all just excuses. What my main bitch is why can’t men take care of the women that take care of them? If you have a good one, show her how much you appreciate her. Tell her, do things to help her. Housework is not only for women anymore. Every little thing that a man does for his women mean more to us than you can understand. If we see you doing things to help us out, we will love and respect you more. Don’t make male bashing so easy for us. Getting a woman isn’t the end of it, you have to continue to do what you have to do to keep her. We are not bought and paid for because we are married or in a relationship. We need all of the things that got us in the relationship to continue to keep us there. This is a new world, if you don’t take care of your women like you should someone else will. SO men, lets remember who takes care of you every day. Take care of that woman back. Do what is necessary to keep her in love with you. And remember, you are not OUR children, we have our own, and you should spend your life WITH us and continue to put us first. If you are just there to have someone to take care of you without anything in return, move back to yo mama’s house. We want to spend our lives taking care of someone who takes care of us also. Do things with us and make us feel like the most important thing in your life. If you don’t feel that way about the person that you are with, find the one that does make you feel like that, but leave the one your with first please. People should look at it so much differently than they do. Don’t be with someone just to have them there, be with them because they make you happy and take care of you like they should. Put every bit of effort into making that person happy and believe me, it will come back ten fold. Men, take responsibility for your women not staying with you, figure out a little about her so you know what she needs. Every woman is different, but we are not that hard to figure out. If you really care, you will know her and be able to tell what she needs probably better than she can. It is work; don’t be so lazy to work on it. If you love her, love her with everything, don’t take people for granted, they can only take so much of it before you lose the best thing that you ever could have had. Don’t forget the little things mean so much to us. Open our doors, tell us you love us and make it proven in your actions. And remember women are much more perseptive than men, you will never be better at it than us, actions speak louder than words, so listen always to her, even if she is bitching, let her vent and say what she has to say, but ALWAYS make her understand that you care what she thinks and feels. It will help you out a lot in the end.

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What the Hell happened to Gentlemen?